PureMind: The Essence of Awareness, Love, and Presence
Introduction
What is the PureMind and why do so many spiritual teachings point to a pure, original state of mind at the core of our being? Across traditions, sages have spoken of a pristine awareness untouched by worry or ego – a state often described as our natural mind or original nature. The Buddha, for example, proclaimed that “luminous… is the mind,” naturally radiant until obscured by defilements accesstoinsight.org. In other words, our mind at its core is clear and bright, and whatever fear, anger, or confusion we experience are passing clouds over an inherently clear sky. Many call this basic clarity pure awareness, presence, or the light of consciousness itself. In Christian terms it might be called the “pure heart” by which one can “see God” activechristianity.org – a purity of inner being linked to innocence and love. In essence, PureMind refers to this deepest center of awareness that is unstained, loving, and whole.
Importantly, PureMind is not a cold or empty state; it is often described as warm, peaceful, and imbued with an expansive sense of love and innocence. When we touch this inner purity, we feel we are coming home to what is most true in ourselves – a feeling of recognition and calm. In fact, simply repeating the phrase “Pure Mind” inwardly can evoke a gentle warmth or calm because it reminds us of our innate goodness and clarity. Nearly every spiritual tradition points to this truth: beneath the clutter of thoughts and past conditioning, our essence is pure. This essay will explore the meaning of PureMind deeply – examining how it relates to awareness, love, and our natural state; how it can be experienced and embodied in daily life; and how it appears through the lens of various spiritual teachings. Like a journey through the chapters of a book, we will delve into the nature of PureMind from foundational understanding to practical living, ultimately discovering why resting in PureMind feels like returning home to clarity, freedom, and love.
Contents
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Foundational Meaning & Essence
Exploring the deepest meaning of PureMind and its relation to awareness, love, innocence, and our natural state. -
Personal Experience & Embodiment
The felt sense of PureMind – why it brings peace, how it affects our body and mind, and ways to live from it amid daily challenges. -
Spiritual, Philosophical, and Psychological Perspectives
PureMind through the lenses of non-duality, Buddhism, Jesus’s teachings, and modern mindfulness; and its connection to “I AM,” presence, knowingness, and equanimity. -
Healing, Transformation & Freedom
How PureMind helps heal fear, anxiety, and trauma, allows forgiveness and letting go, and why it feels like a return to our true home. -
Practical Application & Daily Practice
Methods to stabilize awareness of PureMind throughout the day, morning/evening rituals to remember our true nature, and how PureMind can guide our self-talk, choices, and purpose. -
PureMind in Everyday Life
Applying PureMind to guide decisions, speech, creativity, and worldview – seeing others through the lens of PureMind and responding to suffering with love. -
Identity, Presence & Love
Understanding that PureMind has no fear, no past, no judgment – only clarity and love. Is PureMind our true identity? How does it relate to the realization that “Love is everything”?
Chapter 1: Foundational Meaning & Essence
What is the deepest meaning of PureMind? At its heart, PureMind refers to the pristine essence of mind – the aspect of consciousness that is completely clear, awake, and free of contamination. In Buddhism this is sometimes called the Original Mind or Buddha-nature, the mind “luminous” by nature accesstoinsight.org before it is clouded by thoughts, attachments, and aversions. In a similar vein, Hindu Advaita philosophy points to the pure awareness that underlies all experience – a “True Self” or pure being that remains once the chattering ego-mind subsides medium.com. All these point to the same essence: the deepest awareness of existence, unconditioned and innocent.
We can think of PureMind as the ground of our being, the part of us that simply knows and witnesses with clarity. When completely unattached and unidentified with passing thoughts or self-images, “the mind rests pure and still, simply aware of its own nature” budsas.org. This is a state of profound simplicity – just consciousness aware of itself, silent and lucid. In this non-conceptual purity, one recognizes a sense of wholeness and truth. Many spiritual teachings say that this is our natural state: prior to all learned beliefs and stories about “me,” the essence of mind is open, clear, and unspoiled – very much like the innocence of a child. Jesus alluded to this when he taught that one must “become like little children” to enter the Kingdom biblehub.com. Innocence, in this context, does not mean ignorance but a primordial purity, a heart-mind unburdened by cynicism or malice.
How does PureMind relate to awareness, love, and our natural state of being? Pure Mind is pure awareness – it is the aware space in which all thoughts, feelings, and perceptions arise and pass. Unlike ordinary thinking, this awareness is unbiased and vast, sometimes described as spaciousness or “sky-like mind.” In that clear space of knowing, qualities like love, compassion, and innocence are naturally present. In fact, many mystics say that at the deepest level awareness and love are one. For instance, one contemporary teacher notes that when we truly rest as awareness, “I am love” can be recognized as an experience, not just an idea reddit.com. Why would love be inherent in PureMind? Because in the pure awareness state, the usual barriers of ego – the judgments, fears, and past grievances – drop away, revealing an underlying warmth and connectedness with life. Our natural state is often experienced as blissful or loving because we perceive without the distortions of fear and separation. A Buddhist text puts it beautifully: “Hatred does not cease by hatred at any time: hatred ceases by love. This is an unalterable law.” bmcm.org In the clarity of PureMind, the oppositions and conflicts created by the conditioned mind relax, and what remains is a sense of benevolence and unity. Thus, PureMind is intimately tied to love and innocence – it is the part of us that has never been hurt or hardened, the ever-fresh capacity to see the world with wonder and compassion.
Why does the phrase “Pure Mind” bring calm or warmth when repeated inwardly? Many people find that silently focusing on words like “Pure Mind” or “clear awareness” induces a feeling of recognition and peace. This happens because the phrase points the mind back to its source. Repeating “I am Pure Mind” can act almost like a mantra or a reminder that our true identity is the quiet watcher, not the anxious thinker. As we say these words internally, attention shifts away from racing thoughts and into the present moment – into the simple sense of being. The body often responds immediately: with attention anchored in calm awareness, the breath slows and deepens, engaging the body’s relaxation response. Indeed, psychologists note that conscious, slow breathing activates the parasympathetic nervous system (the “rest and digest” system), leading to lowered heart rate and eased anxiety stellalunatherapy.com. In essence, turning inward with the thought “PureMind” is a way of meditating – we disengage from stress and remember the inner space in which peace is always available. Subjectively, this brings a gentle warmth because we are no longer fueling stressful stories; we are bathing in the quiet reassurance of simply existing. Many practitioners across traditions report a feeling of inner warmth or light when touching their original mind. It is often described as a homecoming – the warmth of finally recognizing oneself. This warm calm is the “recognition” aspect: some part of us seems to say, “Ah yes, I remember this presence.” The more we repeat the phrase with sincerity, the more the mind resonates with its meaning, naturally settling into a state of tranquil clarity.
Is PureMind the same as pure awareness, or something like presence, spaciousness, or truth? These terms – pure awareness, presence, spaciousness, truth – are all attempting to describe facets of the same fundamental reality. PureMind can be considered a synonym for pure awareness: the contentless, timeless knowing that simply is. Many modern teachers use the word Presence to describe living in alignment with this pure awareness – being fully here and now without judgment. When one abides as PureMind, there is a sense of spaciousness because awareness is experienced as open and boundless, like the sky. Thoughts and sensations appear in this open space but do not overwhelm it; you are the space, not the cloud. This is why PureMind is often equated with ultimate truth or reality – it is the changeless backdrop in which the changing phenomena of life occur. In Advaita Vedanta, they say “Tat Tvam Asi” – Thou art That – meaning your true self is not separate from the Absolute medium.com. PureMind, in this sense, is identical with pure consciousness, which is the essence of all that is. Some might distinguish subtle nuances: for example, awareness is the faculty, presence is the feeling of it, spaciousness describes its quality, and truth is its nature. But practically, when we talk about PureMind, we imply the unconditioned awareness that is spacious, present, and truthful. Zen master Dogen once taught that to study the mind is to realize one’s true nature – an experience of emptiness and fullness. Thus, PureMind can be seen as pure awareness in a holistic sense: empty of ego, yet full of reality. It is presence with no pretenses, the “ultimate emptiness” that paradoxically feels like total completeness budsas.org. In summary, PureMind is our term in this journey for that radiant core of consciousness – the presence of awareness itself, which is spacious, clear, and utterly real.
Chapter 2: Personal Experience & Embodiment
“I am Pure Mind.” Why do these simple words bring such a sense of peace and settledness? Many who practice self-inquiry or affirmations find that asserting their identity as pure mind or pure awareness has a potent calming effect. The reason is that this statement directly disengages us from the whirl of mental activity that often causes distress. The moment you say internally “I am Pure Mind,” you are no longer saying “I am my thoughts” or “I am this anxious story.” You’re redirecting attention to the aware self that observes it all. This shift in identification – from the turbulent contents of the mind to the silent context of mind – immediately releases tension. One might notice, for instance, that the breath naturally deepens and the muscles relax when resting in the thought “I am Pure Mind.” The body recognizes a cue to enter a calmer state. In terms of physiology, this corresponds to activating the parasympathetic nervous system, which brings about relaxation: deep mindful breathing signals the body to switch out of fight-or-flight mode and into a state of calm stellalunatherapy.com. The experience often includes a feeling of gentle grounding. Instead of being carried away by worries of future or regrets of past, asserting “I am Pure Mind” anchors you in the present moment, where those mental anxieties have less grip. This present-centered being has a palpable feel – many describe it as a settling or inner stability, as if one’s center of gravity dropped from the head to the heart or belly. With each breath in this awareness, the nervous system finds balance, and one’s relationship to oneself softens.
How does living from PureMind change the way I relate to myself? When we embody PureMind, we begin to relate to our thoughts, emotions, and even flaws with more compassion and objectivity. Instead of a harsh inner critic or an anxious inner voice, PureMind introduces a spacious non-judgmental awareness. In modern mindfulness terms, it’s “present-centered awareness… acknowledged and accepted as it is” takingcharge.csh.umn.edu. That means we can notice a feeling of anger or fear arise, but rather than instantly reacting or condemning ourselves for it, we observe it within the larger space of consciousness. This shift can be profoundly healing – our self-talk becomes gentler because we see thoughts as just thoughts, not as definitive of who we are. The sense of self broadens beyond the conditioned narrative (“I’m not good enough” or “I must worry about everything”) into an identification with the observer, which is neutral and compassionate. Thus, living from PureMind fosters an attitude of equanimity toward oneself: moment by moment, experiences are seen, accepted, and allowed to pass. Neuroscience has shown that such mindful relating to one’s thoughts reduces stress reactivity and increases emotional resilience takingcharge.csh.umn.edu. Indeed, by holding ourselves in the light of pure awareness, we create an inner environment of safety. The nervous system shifts out of chronic fight-or-flight, since there is now an inner witness saying “It’s okay, you are aware of this and larger than this.” Over time, this can even retrain our baseline of calm. We may find our breathing is more often natural and deep, our posture more relaxed, and our reactions less hurried. In essence, living from PureMind means living from the center of our being – steady in awareness – rather than living at the mercy of each passing mental storm.
How can I maintain PureMind during daily stresses – worry, fear, or self-judgment? This is one of the great challenges of embodiment: to carry the clarity of PureMind into the messy situations of life. It is possible, though it takes practice. One helpful approach is to use micro-practices throughout the day. For example, in moments of stress you might pause and take three mindful breaths, gently remembering “I am Pure Mind, not this reaction.” Such a pause can create a crucial gap between a trigger and your response, allowing you to respond from presence rather than panic takingcharge.csh.umn.edu. Another practice is to deliberately recall the feeling of peace you know from meditation or prayer whenever stress hits – almost like summoning a memory of your true home. Over time, these moments of reconnection string together and you find that even in a busy day, an undercurrent of spacious awareness can be maintained.
It’s also important to develop a habit of self-inquiry when worry or fear arises. Ask yourself: “Who is worried right now? Can I observe this worry?” The moment you pose such questions, you have activated PureMind – because you’re stepping back into the observer position. As one non-dual teacher explains, when we cease collapsing into every problem and instead remain in “the authentic fullness of consciousness,” problems dissolve and compassion arise naturally innerfrontier.org. In practical terms, this means when a worry thought comes, you acknowledge it (“I see you, thought”) and watch how it dissipates when not fed. The worry might return, and you watch again. This is the essence of mindfulness in daily life: not eliminating challenges, but relating to them from a wiser inner stance. Self-judgment in particular can be diffused by PureMind. If a harsh thought says “I failed; I’m not good,” the PureMind response is almost like an elder smiling at a child’s tantrum – understanding but not buying into it. You might notice the judgment, take a breath, and remind yourself that this is just a conditioned tape playing. The loving awareness of PureMind doesn’t fight the inner critic; it simply recognizes it and refuses to identify with it. With repetition, even strongly ingrained patterns of self-criticism can loosen under this gentle, persistent light of awareness.
What happens inside me when I lose the sense of PureMind? How can I return gently? It’s perfectly normal that we “lose” PureMind many times a day. One moment we’re peaceful and clear, the next we realize we’ve been lost in a mental drama for half an hour. When this happens, it usually means that our attention got captivated by some thought or emotion, and we identified with it. In essence, the expansive awareness contracted into a small self again – what some call the ego or autopilot mode. A spiritual teacher humorously described this as forgetting and “sinking back to autopilot” after a taste of awareness innerfrontier.org. Suddenly, we are back to operating on old habits: perhaps we get angry in traffic and fully believe in that anger, or we fall into anxious planning and lose the present moment. Internally, this shift often comes with a tightening in the body (clenched stomach, shallow breath) and a sense of narrowed focus. It’s as if the mind’s sky filled up with clouds and we can no longer see the sun. However, the sun of PureMind is still there behind those clouds.
To return gently, the first step is noticing that you’ve lost it. This moment of noticing is crucial – and it is itself a moment of Pure Mind returning (because who is it that notices the distraction? The awareness itself!). So the very act of realizing “I’ve been distracted” means you are already stepping back into observer consciousness. Rather than getting upset at yourself, congratulate yourself for waking up again. Then, re-center. One effective method is the “Stop, Breathe, Be” approach: stop what you’re doing for a second, take a conscious breath, and be present – feel the sensations in your body, feel the here-and-now, allowing the mental story to dissipate. You can also use a phrase like “Come home” or “PureMind now” to signal a return. The key is to be gentle. If you notice you lost your peaceful state and then scold yourself (“Ugh, I can’t stay mindful at all!”), you’re just layering more judgment. Instead, practice friendly persistence. Each time you wander, simply note it and gently invite your awareness back, like herding a little lamb back to the pasture – no anger, just patience. Over time, these small returns build the “muscle” of staying in PureMind longer. It’s helpful to remember that even advanced practitioners go through cycles of losing and regaining clarity. The journey is seldom a straight line; it’s more of a dance. Thus, the attitude of kindness toward oneself during this dance is paramount. With a gentle approach, each return to PureMind becomes a little easier and more joyful. You begin to trust that no matter how far or how often you drift, the clear space of awareness is always accessible the moment you remember to look for it. In fact, every lapse becomes an opportunity to deepen your commitment to living from that pure, peaceful center.
Chapter 3: Spiritual, Philosophical, and Psychological Perspectives
How does PureMind relate to various spiritual teachings – non-duality, Buddhism, the teachings of Jesus, or modern mindfulness? It’s fascinating to see that, despite differences in language, many traditions are pointing to the same ultimate reality when they speak of inner purity or presence.
In non-duality (as found in Advaita Vedanta or contemporary teachings), the emphasis is on realizing that your core identity is pure consciousness and not separate from the absolute. Non-dual teachers encourage entering one’s inherent “pure awareness, pure consciousness, pure being” innerfrontier.org and discovering that the usual division between self and other is an illusion. In such a state, as an inner frontier text describes, “seer and seen merge” and the ego “evaporates” in a global field of awareness innerfrontier.org. This is essentially a direct encounter with PureMind – it’s realizing you are the awareness in which all experience happens, beyond any sense of twoness. The I AM teachings (inspired by mystics like Sri Ramana Maharshi and others) echo this: the simple sense of “I Am” – without attaching any attributes (“this or that”) – leads one into the recognition of being itself, which is pure and universal medium.com. Non-duality asserts that PureMind or pure awareness is the base of reality, and experiencing it reveals profound peace and oneness. Modern figures like Eckhart Tolle use the term Presence for this state, aligning closely with the idea of PureMind.
In Buddhism, especially in Zen, Vajrayana, and Theravada insights, we find concepts like original mind, Buddha-nature, or the luminous mind. The Buddha taught that the mind is naturally radiant: “Luminous, monks, is the mind,” though it “is defiled by incoming defilements”, and luminous again when freed from defilements accesstoinsight.org. This suggests that at its core, consciousness is purity and light – only greed, hatred, and delusion temporarily stain it. Buddhist practice, from mindfulness to deep meditation, is largely about removing those stains so the original PureMind can shine forth. In Zen, they speak of seeing one’s original face (the face you had before you were born) – a poetic way to describe experiencing the mind’s essence beyond personality and conditioning. This is essentially the PureMind experience: silent, timeless awareness. Buddhism also adds the insight of emptiness: that PureMind is empty of fixed self – it’s boundless potential and compassionate knowing rather than a personal entity. Notably, when Buddhist masters attain enlightenment, they often remark on the tremendous compassion and equanimity that arise, indicating that PureMind isn’t a blank void but a state suffused with understanding and love. It is also identical with what is called equanimity (upekkha) at the highest level – for instance, in descriptions of deep meditative absorption, the mind filled with “pure, bright awareness” is accompanied by “purity of equanimity and mindfulness” accesstoinsight.org. In other words, PureMind naturally includes profound even-mindedness, seeing all phenomena with balance and clarity.
When it comes to Jesus’s teachings and Christian mysticism, the terminology differs but the essence can be strikingly similar. Jesus emphasized purity of heart, saying “Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God.” activechristianity.org The heart in biblical terms often refers to the inner being or mind. This promise suggests that by cleansing our inner lens (becoming pure in mind/heart), we directly experience the Divine. Christian contemplatives speak of the “mind of Christ” – which is described as a state free of ego, filled with love, humility, and clarity activechristianity.org. To have the mind of Christ is to see as God sees – which means without judgment or fear. In a sense, this aligns with PureMind: a state of graceful awareness unmarred by sin (sin in this context being the separative ego and its manifestations like pride or hatred). Furthermore, Jesus’s teachings about not worrying for tomorrow, living like the lilies and birds in present trust, all hint at residing in a state of presence rather than anxious thought – again, resonant with PureMind. Christian mystics like Meister Eckhart or St. Teresa often wrote about the interior castle or the spark of the soul where one meets God; these can be seen as metaphorical ways to describe a pure center of consciousness within, where God (or ultimate reality) is reflected without distortion. The famous biblical phrase “Be still and know that I am God” exemplifies this: in stillness of mind – a pure still mind – one realizes the I AM (the presence of God) within. Thus, while the language of devotion and God is used, the practical instruction is to reach an inner silence and purity very akin to what we call PureMind.
Modern mindfulness and psychology approach PureMind in more secular terms but speak to the same phenomenon. Jon Kabat-Zinn, who pioneered mindfulness-based stress reduction, defined mindfulness as “awareness that arises through paying attention, on purpose, in the present moment, and non-judgmentally” takingcharge.csh.umn.edu. This non-judgmental present awareness is essentially cultivating a pure observing mind with qualities of acceptance and clarity – almost an exact match to PureMind minus any spiritual language. In psychotherapy and neuroscience, there is growing interest in what’s sometimes called “metacognition” or the observing self: the capacity to witness one’s thoughts and feelings as events in the mind rather than identifying with them. This capacity is seen as key to well-being, because it gives people cognitive and emotional flexibility. Therapies like Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) teach clients to contact the “Observing Self,” an aspect of oneself that is unchanging, safe, and aware, noting that this helps in diffusing negative thought patterns. Again, this maps to the idea of PureMind as the safe aware space. Psychologically, when one rests in PureMind, one is exhibiting what some researchers call “mental spaciousness” or an open-monitoring awareness that reduces bias and increases insight takingcharge.csh.umn.edu.
In summary, across these perspectives – non-dual philosophy, Buddhist meditation, Christian contemplation, and mindfulness psychology – PureMind emerges as a foundational truth. It is the ground of consciousness recognized in each tradition, whether called Atman, Buddha-nature, the Kingdom within, or simply present-moment awareness. All agree that contacting this pure awareness brings about greater peace, love, and understanding. Each tradition contributes its flavor: non-duality emphasizes the unity with all existence, Buddhism emphasizes clarity and compassion free of attachment, Jesus emphasizes love and innocence, and mindfulness emphasizes acceptance and presence. Together, they enrich our understanding that PureMind is not a fanciful idea but a real potential of human experience, consistently rediscovered in various ages and cultures.
What is the relationship between PureMind and concepts like “I AM,” presence, knowingness, or equanimity? These terms are often used by spiritual teachers to describe aspects of the awakened state, and they interrelate closely with PureMind.
The sense of “I AM” – as taught by mystics like Ramana Maharshi or Nisargadatta Maharaj – is essentially a doorway to PureMind. Normally when we say “I am,” we immediately fill in the blank (“I am John, I am a teacher, I am happy/sad”). But if you stop at just “I am,” you rest in the pure existence-consciousness before labels. Ramana Maharshi asserted that “the pure ‘I Am’ is the Self”, meaning the direct sense of existing is our true identity, and it is pure awareness sriramanateachings.orgsriramanateachings.org. Thus “I AM” without attributes is like a shorthand for dwelling in PureMind (which is aware existence).
Presence, as mentioned, is essentially living in the state of PureMind with alertness. When someone is deeply present, they are not caught in thoughts of past or future, nor are they judging the now – they are simply here, conscious, and at ease. PureMind is the foundation of genuine presence. In presence there is a great stillness and clarity, and also often a subtle joy of being. Many have noted that presence has a kind of aliveness or knowing quality – this ties into knowingness. In spiritual circles, knowingness doesn’t mean conceptual knowledge but the self-luminous quality of awareness knowing itself. PureMind has this reflexive knowingness: it is the subject that can’t be turned into an object, the part of you that knows you are aware. Some traditions call it the witness or the knower. When you abide as PureMind, you feel that you know, and you know that you know, without needing discursive thought. It’s a very simple, contented awareness.
Equanimity is another natural property of PureMind. Equanimity means mental balance – not being thrown off center by any polarity (pain/pleasure, success/failure, etc.). When one is established in PureMind, equanimity arises because you see things from a broader perspective. You are less identified with the personal stakes in every situation and more interested in the truth of the moment. Emotions still occur, but there is a spacious buffer around them. As one Buddhist description of enlightenment puts it, in the fourth stage of deep meditation the monk sits “permeating the body with a pure, bright awareness,” experiencing “purity of equanimity and mindfulness, neither-pleasure-nor-pain”accesstoinsight.org. This illustrates that when awareness is purified (PureMind), equanimity is present. It doesn’t mean life becomes a dull gray; rather, joy and sorrow are both fully felt but neither overwhelms the tranquility of the mind. Equanimity in PureMind comes from understanding that all experiences are transient waves on the ocean of consciousness – a realization that brings both peace and a kind of gentle compassion.
In essence, “I AM,” presence, knowingness, and equanimity are facets or fruits of abiding as PureMind. The I AM is the recognition of being as our identity (the stance of PureMind). Presence is the experiential feel of that state in time (the now saturated with consciousness). Knowingness is the aware quality of PureMind (it is not blank; it inherently knows by being). And equanimity is the stability and balance that comes with it (the mind undisturbed, like a clear pond unaffected by wind). All these together paint a picture of what it is like to live from our pure mind. We could say: in PureMind, I am the presence of aware knowing, equally embracing all that appears. Different teachers emphasize one word or another, but they all refer to the holistic experience of awakened consciousness.
Is PureMind a state, a quality, an identity, or an underlying truth? This is a subtle question. Depending on perspective, one could call PureMind a state of consciousness, or say it’s a quality of mind, or even our ultimate identity, or simply the truth of what we are. Perhaps the most encompassing way to see it is as an underlying truth of our being. PureMind is not just a passing state like happiness or sadness; it’s always present in the background (even if unnoticed), much like the screen on which a movie plays is always there behind the images. In this sense, it’s the ground state of consciousness, not a fleeting mood or altered state that comes and goes. It’s more fundamental than that – when all other states cease (as in deep sleep or deep meditation), what remains is a simple awareness-of-being, which is PureMind.
However, from the relative perspective of a practitioner, one could refer to “the state of PureMind” when one intentionally abides as pure awareness. We might have moments where we’re in that state and moments we’re not (lost in egoic state), so experientially it can seem like a special state that we enter. Advanced meditation texts sometimes call it the natural state rather than a special state, to indicate it’s actually the baseline and other agitated states are deviations.
As a quality, PureMind can be described by its characteristics: clarity, openness, love, stillness. In that sense, we speak of the quality of purity or luminosity of mind – qualities that can be cultivated and stabilized.
As an identity, PureMind is indeed what remains when we peel away the conditioned personality. When someone asks “Who am I, really?” and follows that inquiry deeply, they don’t find a thing or an object – they eventually find the Pure Awareness witnessing the question itself. Some traditions say that is your true Self (with a capital S). For example, the Upanishads state, “Atman (the Self) is Brahman (ultimate reality)”, pointing to the identity of the core of our consciousness with the truth of the universemedium.com. In simpler terms, PureMind is you at the most authentic level, prior to name and form.
Finally, as an underlying truth, PureMind can be considered the common ground in all beings. Just as all radio songs are carried by the same kind of radio waves, all conscious beings share the same pure consciousness as their essence. This is why spiritual teachers often emphasize compassion and ethics: if we all are expressions of one field of pure awareness, then loving others and oneself naturally follows. In the Diamond Approach, a contemporary path, it’s said that in nondual realization you experience one field “of pure awareness or presence that experiences everything as its own luminosity” diamondapproach.org – implying that at the deepest level, the light of awareness in me and in you is one and the same. This is the truth of PureMind beyond any individual: a single, boundless awareness appearing as the multiplicity of life.
So, PureMind can be spoken of in all these ways. In practice, when we are cultivating it, we might treat it like a state or quality to return to. As we mature, we recognize it as our very identity. And ultimately, we discover it as the underlying truth of reality, the unchanging spirit present in all conditioned experiences. Each of these understandings deepens our appreciation of PureMind – from something we experience to something we are to something that is universal.
Chapter 4: Healing, Transformation & Freedom
How can PureMind help heal fear, anxiety, trauma, or inner contraction? One of the most transformative aspects of contacting PureMind is the healing effect it has on our psyche. Fear and anxiety thrive in a busy, fragmented mind – a mind that is projecting worst-case scenarios or ruminating on past hurts. PureMind, by contrast, is a state of wholeness and safety in the present moment. When we access it, even briefly, the grip of fear can loosen. This is partly physiological: as mentioned earlier, when the mind settles into calm awareness, the body shifts into a relaxation response, lowering stress hormones and soothing the nervous system stellalunatherapy.com. Many people who meditate regularly report significant reductions in baseline anxiety because they learn to disidentify from anxious thoughts and rest in a more grounded awareness.
From a psychological perspective, PureMind provides a kind of inner safe haven. Trauma and deep fear are often stored as fragmented impressions in the mind and body that overwhelm our normal coping. But in the space of pure, non-judging awareness, these traumatic feelings can arise and be seen without re-traumatization. Mindfulness-based therapists often guide clients to “feel it in a space of compassion”, essentially inviting the client’s PureMind to hold the pain. As one meditation coach explains, maintaining pure awareness of a feeling allows us to fully feel it while remaining distinct from it, like being the ocean holding a wave theawakening.coach. This can gently process and release long-held pains. Indeed, research has shown that mindfulness and presence can help in exposure therapy for trauma by preventing reactivity – the person learns to witness flashbacks or fear memories with a bit more distance and kindness each time, which gradually dissolves their charge.
Moreover, PureMind tends to bring forth qualities of self-compassion and acceptance, which are crucial for healing inner wounds. In the clear light of awareness, we might finally allow ourselves to fully feel a grief or fear that we have been avoiding, but now it’s held in a context of love. This experiencing through in safety often leads to profound release – the stored tension (inner contractions) in the body might relax as the old emotional energy is allowed to move and exit. For instance, someone might, in a moment of deep presence, feel a tight knot of anxiety in the chest and instead of panicking, they give it compassionate attention and breath. The knot may then unravel into sobs or heat or trembling – and then calm. The awareness didn’t fix anything by force; it healed by providing space and understanding.
In spiritual terms, PureMind is often associated with the “light” that dispels darkness. Fear is sometimes described as the darkness of ignorance (not seeing reality clearly, thinking we’re separate and in danger). Pure awareness is like turning on a light in a dark room – the shadows of misperception scatter. There’s a saying in the Bible, “Perfect love drives out fear”biblehub.com. When we are in PureMind, which, as we’ve noted, includes a component of unconditional love or deep benevolence, fear loses its foothold. It cannot co-exist with that perfect love and clarity. In a tangible way, when you are fully present (not time-traveling into future or past), you realize in this moment you are actually okay. Fear feeds on time and thought; presence undercuts that by its reality check of now. In the now, problems become manageable or at least the threat is often mental. Thus, bringing fear into presence often diminishes it greatly.
How does PureMind allow forgiveness, letting go, or the easing of old wounds? Forgiveness and letting go happen quite naturally when we operate from PureMind. This is because grudges and bitterness require continuous replay of stories – they need an egoic sense of “I was wronged” and identification with that narrative. PureMind, being in the present and free of ego-identification, doesn’t fuel those repetitive resentful thoughts. Instead, as seen in the Dhammapada verse cited earlier, relinquishing resentful thoughts leads to peace bmcm.org. When you are resting as awareness, you may notice that holding onto anger or hurt is actually painful in itself – it registers as a disturbance in your calm. With increased awareness, one often comes to a crossroads: continue clinging to the pain (and exit PureMind), or release it to preserve one’s peace. Most choose peace as they see clearly the cost of holding on.
Forgiveness, then, often flows as a by-product of valuing peace over vindication. In the quiet of PureMind, one can see the humanity of the other person or the situation that caused hurt, with more understanding. Perhaps you see that the other person acted from their own pain or ignorance. This broader perspective doesn’t excuse harmful actions, but it provides context that makes empathy possible. Many spiritual traditions say forgiveness arises when we realize our shared being. If all are one in pure consciousness, clinging to hatred for someone else is like drinking poison yourself. Indeed, “hatred ceases by love” bmcm.org is a reflection that by returning to love (the nature of PureMind), old hatreds naturally diminish.
Letting go of old wounds is similar. PureMind is grounded in the present, whereas wounds of the past live in our memory. By constantly coming back to “just this, now”, the past loses its heavy reality – it is seen as images and feelings arising now, not as chains that bind you. With gentle awareness, one can attend to those images and feelings, grieve if needed, but also release them into the openness. Techniques like mindfulness meditation have been shown to help people let go of past traumas by preventing rumination. The person cultivates the ability to see a painful memory arise, feel the sadness, and then let the image go, returning to breathing or open awareness. Each time they do this, the wound’s hold lessens. Over time, the narrative around the wound might transform from “I am a victim” to “It was a difficult experience I went through, but it is not who I am.” That shift is enormous and comes directly from observing that who one really is is the observer, not the wounded self-concept.
In some cases, PureMind can bring almost immediate relief: people report that in a moment of deep meditation they suddenly forgave someone spontaneously, or they felt a knot of longstanding pain melt away in a flood of compassion. These more dramatic releases are akin to shining a very strong light on a knot – it can untie itself in that illumination. But even when it is gradual, each bit of practice in PureMind is like a gentle dissolving of the glue that keeps old wounds stuck.
Why does PureMind feel like returning home? Many practitioners across different paths describe the encounter with pure awareness or their true nature as a profound homecoming. There are several layers to this feeling. On one level, it is extraordinarily familiar. You realize that you’ve actually experienced this peaceful presence before – often in childhood, or in those fleeting moments when you were completely at ease and open. It’s familiar because it is fundamentally you – not the constructed personality, but the one who has been quietly witnessing your life all along. Coming upon PureMind can trigger deep recognition: “Oh, this is essentially me, the real me, that I somehow forgot amidst all the noise.” Just as coming back to one’s hometown after years away can evoke a warmth and nostalgia, coming back to PureMind carries a sweetness of remembering something essential.
Another aspect is the sense of belonging and safety. Home is where you can let down your guard and just be yourself. PureMind provides that same feeling internally. When you rest as pure awareness, you aren’t performing for anyone, you aren’t measuring up to any standard – you simply are. There’s a profound relaxation in that, an unburdening of the psyche. One feels “I am okay as I am, I am complete.” That completeness is very much like the contentment of being at home on a comfy chair after a long day. The Buddha used metaphors of crossing a turbulent sea of suffering to the “other shore” of liberation, which is essentially landing on the firm ground of one’s true nature. The sigh of relief at reaching that shore captures the “home at last” sentiment. A Buddhist teacher described it as the moment of “Ahh, now we are home, now everything is okay” budsas.org – the restlessness subsides because we found what we were unknowingly seeking.
Additionally, when we say returning home, it implies we originated from there. If one resonates with the idea that before all conditioning we were pure and free (think of an infant’s clear presence), then spiritual practice is not so much learning new things as uncovering what was always here. The Child within concept or the Original Face in Zen – these point to an innate purity we had at the start and somehow lost sight of. Hence, finding it again is literally a return.
Even for those not inclined to poetic interpretation, the neuroscience might say: when you access PureMind, your brain waves might resemble those of very content meditative states or even early childhood patterns, releasing neurochemicals that signal safety and pleasure. So part of the homecoming is a physiological response of the body saying “you are safe and at ease.” This deep relax and internal coherence is euphoric in a gentle way, often experienced as a glow in the chest or warmth in the belly (people sometimes report “a warmth in my heart-center” when resting as awareness). It’s like the body itself recognizes the home vibe and responds accordingly.
Lastly, many spiritual teachings hold that our true home is in the Absolute or in God. If one views PureMind as the spark of divinity within, then returning to it is also a reconnection with the Source of existence. Mystics would say the soul finds its home in God when it turns inward. So PureMind as home carries a spiritual profundity: it is where we and the Divine meet. Little wonder that it feels enveloping, loving, and “where I belong.” In sum, the calm, the recognition, the safety, and the sense of original identity all combine in the experience of PureMind to give a unmistakable intuition of home. As one Buddhist monk put it, Nirvana is the ultimate home – secure and unshakeable. Every glimpse of PureMind is a taste of that unshakeable security, a feeling that here is real peace. We realize that what we sought in external homes – acceptance, rest, wholeness – was within us all along, in the sanctuary of our own clear and loving awareness.
Chapter 5: Practical Application & Daily Practice
Realizing the truth of PureMind in a calm moment is one thing; integrating it into daily life is another. Fortunately, there are concrete practices and habits that can help us stabilize our connection to PureMind so it infuses our everyday activities.
What practices help me stabilize PureMind through the day? Regular meditation is perhaps the cornerstone practice. Taking even 10–20 minutes each morning to sit quietly and rest as awareness sets a strong foundation. In meditation, you might focus on the breath or a mantra until the mind settles, then gently notice the pure aware space that remains. Consistent daily meditation gradually familiarizes you with the feel of PureMind so that it becomes easier to return to during the day. Beyond formal sitting, incorporating mindfulness in daily routines keeps the thread of PureMind present. For example, you can practice mindful walking – feeling each step fully – on your way to the car or the bus. You can eat one meal slowly, in silence, truly tasting and being aware. These moments act like mini-refreshers of the present-centered awareness. Another helpful practice is the use of triggers or reminders. You might decide that each time you check your phone or see a certain color, you’ll use it as a cue to take a conscious breath and remember PureMind. Some people put sticky notes with words like “Presence” or “PureMind?” in places like their workspace or mirror – gentle nudges to snap out of autopilot and into awareness.
Importantly, short pauses can be sprinkled throughout the day. One effective technique is the STOP practice: Stop, Take a breath, Observe your experience, and Proceed. This takes less than 30 seconds but can be done many times. Such intentional pauses break the momentum of unconscious doing and let you reconnect with being. Over time, they become almost second nature. Modern life is busy, but these micro-practices are like taking sips of water to stay spiritually hydrated. They prevent you from straying too far from center. Think of them as “tethering” yourself to PureMind regularly so you don’t drift. A teacher from the Fourth Way tradition stated we need an inner structure to balance between falling back into self-centered view and being present innerfrontier.org. These practices are how we build that inner structure – through gradual cultivation of attention, body awareness, acceptance, and seeing our identifications innerfrontier.org. Little by little, the mind’s default becomes less scattered and more at home in awareness.
What morning and evening rituals support remembering PureMind? The times after waking and before sleeping are precious opportunities to align with PureMind. In the morning, rather than leaping out of bed and into the day’s to-do list, one can start with a moment of awareness. For instance, upon waking, take a few slow breaths and set an intention: “Today, may I remember my true nature” or “I am Pure Mind moving through this day.” Some like to do a brief meditation or prayer in bed or on a cushion first thing – even five minutes of watching the breath or repeating a simple affirmation (like “light, clear, free”) can set a calm tone. Morning is also a good time for journaling a little about your aspirations to remain present, which reinforces them in your mind. If you enjoy reading, you might read a page from a spiritual book each morning to remind you of the bigger picture. Essentially, the idea is to consciously tune yourself like an instrument at the start of the day to the frequency of mindfulness.
Throughout the day, as discussed, you keep re-tuning. Then comes evening. An evening ritual might include a short reflection or meditation on the day. You could review: where was I reactive or forgetful of PureMind? Where did I remember? Not to judge yourself, but to gently learn. Many find that a quiet sit or prayer before bed helps release the day’s mental residues. As you close your eyes at night, you might practice letting go: imagine placing all your worries and plans in a imaginary bowl for the night, telling yourself you can pick them up tomorrow. This creates space to sink into pure awareness as you drift to sleep. Some traditions encourage a practice of loving-kindness (metta) at night – generating feelings of goodwill for self and others – which can be a heart-centered way of touching PureMind’s love aspect before sleep. If formal practice is hard in the evening, even doing a few mindful stretches or breathing exercises can work. For example, a slow 4-7-8 breathing (inhale 4, hold 7, exhale 8) stimulates relaxation and can bring you into present body awareness, calming both mind and nervous system for rest youtube.comothership.us.
Establishing consistent morning and night rituals essentially bookends your day with awareness. They reinforce that no matter how chaotic the middle of the day might get, you intentionally began and ended with remembering who you are. Over time, these rituals become treasured moments – a kind of rendezvous with your deeper self. They also condition your mind; morning practice makes it more likely you’ll spontaneously recollect PureMind later, and evening practice helps submerge the mind in a calmer state so even your sleep may become more peaceful or even semi-aware. Many advanced meditators report being aware during deep sleep or having very lucid dreams when they end the day in pure awareness. While that’s not the goal per se, it’s a sign of integration.
How can PureMind shape my self-talk, my choices, my relationships, and my purpose? When PureMind begins to pervade our life, it naturally affects everything, because it changes our perspective at a root level. Let’s consider self-talk: Instead of an inner dialogue driven by fear or criticism (“I always mess up,” “I need to be better”), a mind steeped in its pure awareness tends to have a more encouraging and factual tone. It might say, “Hmm, that didn’t go as I hoped, but let’s see what can be learned” – because awareness notices what happened without the extra layer of self-judgment. Also, since PureMind is connected with compassion, our inner voice becomes more like a kind mentor or friend than a harsh judge. You might even directly coach yourself from the perspective of PureMind: when feeling upset, the inner voice could say, “It’s okay, this feeling will pass; stay present.” This kind of supportive self-talk significantly impacts mental health, fostering resilience and confidence.
Our choices and decisions also become clearer and wiser. When you’re identified with ego or a turbulent mind, decisions can be reactive or clouded by biases. But in a state of presence, you tend to respond rather than react. You can pause and consider what choice aligns with clarity and compassion rather than what choice satisfies an immediate impulse. Moreover, PureMind allows you to see intuitively. Sometimes when faced with a tough decision, instead of overanalyzing pros and cons, if you get quiet, the answer emerges in the quiet space. This is that knowingness we talked about – an inner wisdom that can guide action. Neuroscience might frame it as tapping into right-brain or subconscious processing; spiritually, it’s listening to the inner voice. Either way, decisions from this state often prove to be more harmonious and satisfying in the long run, as they were not made from fear or greed but from a more balanced understanding.
In relationships, PureMind can be revolutionary. Seeing others through the lens of PureMind means seeing beyond their surface behavior or our preconceived labels. We start to sense the being in each person – that they too have this pure awareness at their core, even if covered up. This naturally increases patience and empathy. We might listen more deeply because we’re fully present with the person rather than half-absorbed in our own thoughts. When conflicts arise, approaching them with mindful awareness means we’re more likely to respond with calm words and an attempt to understand, rather than knee-jerk defensiveness. Over time, we might be seen as the “calm one” or the peacemaker in our circles, not because we’re suppressing feelings, but because we genuinely operate from a steadier center. Our loved ones may notice we’re more available – truly there when we are with them, which is one of the greatest gifts one can give. Additionally, relating from PureMind fosters unconditional love; we begin to accept others as they are, much as we’re learning to accept ourselves. The judgmental aspect diminishes. For example, if a friend is venting with anger, instead of immediately judging them for being negative, we might hold space (remain the witness, perhaps silently sending kindness) and maybe later gently encourage a positive perspective. Essentially, we relate to the person’s deeper self beyond the temporary emotion, and they will often feel seen and comforted by that.
Finally, our sense of purpose can shift dramatically under the influence of PureMind. Many people, after awakening experiences, report that their priorities change. When the ego is no longer the master, one might feel less obsessed with personal achievement for status’s sake, and more drawn to meaningful or service-oriented endeavors. A clear mind tends to discern what truly matters. As Joseph Campbell said, “Follow your bliss”, and often bliss is found in what resonates with our authentic self. PureMind helps unveil that authenticity – you might rediscover a passion you had as a child or realize that helping others brings you more joy than climbing a corporate ladder. This doesn’t mean everyone will quit their jobs and join a monastery. Rather, whatever role you are in, you infuse it with conscious intention aligned with your values. If you’re a teacher, you teach with presence and genuine care. If you’re an artist, you create from a place of inner inspiration rather than just for external approval. If your current work truly conflicts with your deeper values, you might find the courage to change it.
Purpose in the context of PureMind also becomes less rigid. It’s not so much a single goal to reach (like “become CEO” or “publish a novel”) but more of a direction of growth and contribution. One could say the ultimate purpose from the perspective of PureMind is to express love and awareness in whatever you do. This could manifest in countless forms. You may also find that you are guided by an inner sense of what life wants from you, which may be different from what you thought when guided by societal or ego pressures. The Inner Frontier text noted that living in awareness aligns with a greater Purpose and that purity of being… opens our heart to the Great Compassionate Heart of the World and our unique service to the Allinnerfrontier.org. In simpler terms, when we live from PureMind, we often feel naturally moved to contribute to others or the world in a positive way. This could be big or small – from volunteering or choosing ethical business practices to simply being a source of kindness in your family or community. That alignment of personal purpose with a sense of universal good brings a deep fulfillment. It feels like doing what you came here to do.
In summary, as PureMind is integrated, self-talk becomes kinder, choices more wise, relationships more genuine, and life purpose clearer and more connected to love. You increasingly act not from conditioning but from conscious alignment with truth, which tends to benefit both you and those around you. Life may not suddenly become devoid of challenges, but with PureMind, you navigate those challenges with a kind of grace and insight that makes even the hardships part of the meaningful tapestry of your path.
Chapter 6: PureMind in Everyday Life
What does it look like to actually live day-by-day guided by PureMind? This chapter brings the discussion to the very concrete level of daily behaviors, perceptions, and interactions.
How can PureMind guide my decisions, speech, creativity, and worldview? When guided by PureMind, decision-making becomes a more holistic and intuitive process. As mentioned earlier, instead of being driven purely by external metrics or fears, decisions are filtered through inner clarity. One finds oneself naturally considering not just “what do I want?” but “what aligns with truth and love here?” This might mean sometimes making choices that on the surface seem less immediately gratifying but feel right at a deeper level. For example, you might turn down a lucrative job offer because during quiet reflection you sense it would compromise your integrity or require a lifestyle that pulls you away from presence. On the flip side, you may take a leap of faith into something your heart calls you to do, even if it’s risky, because your clear mind isn’t as dominated by fear of failure. Essentially, wisdom and compassion become your decision criteria. The outcome of such decisions often benefits not just yourself but others as well, since they are rooted in a larger perspective than ego.
In terms of speech, a mind established in awareness tends to speak more consciously and kindly. You become more aware of the impact of words. Instead of reacting with sharp or thoughtless remarks, you might pause that split-second to consider: Is what I’m about to say true? Is it necessary? Is it kind? (These are guidelines found in many wisdom traditions). Speaking from PureMind also means being authentic – saying what you mean and meaning what you say, but without the extra edge of aggression or the masks of pretense. There’s a sincerity and calm in the tone that others might even pick up on. People might comment that talking to you is soothing or that you really listen. In fact, part of mindful speech is mindful listening, as touched on earlier; by fully listening, the responses that come out of your mouth are more apt and empathetic. When disagreements occur, PureMind guidance might cause you to speak in a way that diffuses conflict. For example, rather than accusatory “you” statements, you’re more likely to use “I” statements and express your feelings without blame, or to find common ground. In this way, conversation becomes a means of connection rather than division. In Buddhist terms, this aligns with “Right Speech” – speech that is truthful and spoken with good intention.
Creativity flourishes under the light of PureMind because the usual blocks of self-doubt or overthinking diminish. Many artists and creators know the feeling of a “flow state” where one is utterly present and the creation seems to come through effortlessly. That is essentially tapping into PureMind – the small self steps aside and the universal creative energy flows. Whether you are painting, writing, coding, or even coming up with business solutions, operating from presence allows for original insights to emerge. You’re more likely to have those “aha!” moments when not straining for them, but rather when you’re in a relaxed open awareness. As the Inner Frontier article noted, “simplify into the moment… become that vast sky of unadorned awareness”, and then inspiration can strike in that clarity innerfrontier.org. Also, without the ego’s attachment, you might take more creative risks or think outside the box, since you are less afraid of how you’ll be judged. Your worldview also shifts to see creativity as a process that comes from beyond just “me” – it’s more of a collaboration with the muses or the collective mind. Thus, humility and boldness paradoxically combine: you feel like a humble vessel, but that gives you boldness to express freely.
Regarding your worldview, living from PureMind transforms how you see reality. You start perceiving life less as a battleground of competing interests and more as an interconnected tapestry. When the mind is pure, “we no longer experience the world as a battleground of opposing forces” – as one Buddhist commentary insightfully says buddhismnow.com. Instead, you sense a fundamental unity or harmony behind events. This can manifest as seeing lessons and growth in challenges rather than seeing life as simply hostile. You might also become more appreciative; a clear mind notices beauty and miracle in ordinary things (the pattern of leaves, the kindness of strangers, etc.) because it’s not preoccupied. One could say the worldview shifts from one of scarcity and fear to one of abundance and trust. You trust that by aligning with awareness and love, life unfolds in a meaningful way. This doesn’t mean being naïve – you still acknowledge suffering and injustice in the world – but your way of understanding them is different. You might view suffering as the result of ignorance of our true nature, rather than some inherent evil. This perspective often births compassion: seeing that people fight or act cruelly because they are lost in delusion (not seeing their PureMind) invites you to respond with the wish for them to awaken, rather than with hatred. In essence, a PureMind worldview is characterized by clarity, optimism (in the long-term sense of believing in the possibility of awakening for all), and compassion. It’s also deeply grounded; you’re seeing things more as they are. A great Zen saying goes, “Before enlightenment, chop wood carry water. After enlightenment, chop wood carry water.” The world externally might be the same, but your view is so clear that even mundane work is seen as part of the Great Way. Everything is imbued with a sense of sacredness or at least okay-ness.
What does it mean to see others through the lens of PureMind? It means seeing others essentially as they truly are – which is beyond their behaviors, personalities, or the roles they play. Through PureMind’s lens, you recognize the same pure awareness in them that you know in yourself. It’s as if you look at another person and quietly sense a beingness or presence there, even if they themselves aren’t aware of it. This naturally fosters respect and patience. For example, if someone is angry and yelling, instead of only seeing an “angry person,” you might inwardly remember that this is a consciousness temporarily clouded by anger, but inherently capable of calm and goodness. This perspective helps you not take the anger personally and perhaps respond to the underlying pain rather than the harsh words. To use an analogy, it’s like seeing the clear water in a jar that’s been stirred up – you know the clarity is there and will return when the sediment settles. Practically, seeing others in this way might manifest as deep listening and giving them space to be heard. It might mean you become less judgmental of people’s flaws, understanding that everyone is on a journey and sometimes people act out of their conditioning (which is not their ultimate identity).
Also, when relating to loved ones, seeing through the PureMind lens can rekindle appreciation. You may notice the simple goodness or aliveness in your child or partner in moments you used to overlook. Every person becomes a sort of mirror – since you recognize the same awareness in them, interactions carry an implicit sense of “we are both manifestations of the One Awareness.” This can be very subtle, not something you necessarily talk about, but you might feel more kinship even with strangers. It’s common for those who have had awakening experiences to report feeling love for all humanity, or crying at the beauty of each person’s existence. It might sound poetic, but it translates into concrete kindness. You might smile more at people, offer help more readily, or simply not engage in gossip or demeaning talk because you intuitively feel it’s out of alignment to speak ill of the same consciousness that you are. In essence, seeing with PureMind is seeing beyond separateness.
One can also note that this lens doesn’t mean ignoring practical differences or not setting boundaries. It’s not rose-colored glasses in that sense. If someone is toxic or harmful, you might lovingly keep distance or speak up for justice; but even as you do, you might hold in your heart a wish that they find their inner freedom too someday. The difference is you’re not demonizing them; you see their actions as arising from ignorance or suffering rather than inherent evil. This perspective allows one to practice what Jesus taught: “Love your enemies”, which is only possible when you can see that at the deepest level your “enemy” shares the same being as you.
How can PureMind help me respond to suffering in myself and others with love? Suffering is an inevitable part of life, but how we respond can make a tremendous difference. PureMind equips us with the two wings needed to respond to suffering: wisdom and compassion. Wisdom sees the situation clearly for what it is, and compassion provides the desire to alleviate the pain lovingly. When you suffer – say you’re feeling depressed or anxious – approaching yourself with PureMind means you neither get lost in the pain nor run away from it. You recognize the feeling within the larger space of awareness, which gives you some wisdom perspective (“This feeling has arisen, but it is not all of me; it will change”). That itself reduces the panic around suffering. Then, compassion arises – you essentially “hold” your own suffering with care. You might place a hand on your heart or speak gently to yourself, comforting the hurt part of you like a loving parent would a child. This self-compassion actually can start to soothe and heal the suffering rather than amplify it. Over time, one develops a trust that “no matter what pain comes, I have an inner refuge.” That confidence reduces secondary suffering (like the fear of suffering).
When it comes to others’ suffering, PureMind lets us be fully present with them without burning out. Often people fear taking on others’ pain or feel helpless. But if you stay anchored in awareness, you can listen to someone’s troubles or witness their hardship and truly be there without drowning in it. Your presence itself becomes a healing force. Recall how a calm friend beside you in a crisis can be incredibly reassuring – by being the calm presence for others, you offer them a space to process their suffering. Moreover, seeing them with PureMind, you have faith in their capacity to come through it (because you see their inner strength or their true Self beyond the problem). This faith can sometimes reignite their own hope. Compassionate action can naturally spring from here too: you might be moved to help in practical ways (cooking a meal for a sick friend, volunteering, etc.), but you’ll do it with a spirit of love, not pity. There’s a big difference: pity might look down and feel burdened, while compassion (pure-mind-love) feels equal and joyful to serve.
Also, in responding to suffering, PureMind introduces a bigger picture understanding. You might recall that suffering, while painful, often contains lessons or catalysts for growth. This doesn’t mean you spout platitudes to someone in pain (which can be insensitive), but in your own heart you hold that hope that this too can be transformed. This prevents despair. For example, if a friend loses a job, aside from comforting them, you inwardly trust this might lead them to a new opportunity aligned with their truth. That trusting vibe can subtly encourage them. Likewise, in societal suffering – say you witness injustice – PureMind helps you respond from love (seeking healing and justice) rather than hate. Activists rooted in compassion aim to remedy wrongs without dehumanizing the “oppressor”, focusing instead on alleviating suffering for all involved. Figures like Martin Luther King Jr. exemplified this, coming from a deeply spiritual perspective of unity while fighting injustice – he said, “Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that.” That is PureMind in action against even large-scale suffering.
Ultimately, PureMind lets us be with suffering without fear. We don’t shrink from the homeless person or the crying co-worker; we show up with an open heart and a steady mind. Often that is more powerful than any specific words. People might not remember what you say, but they remember how your presence made them feel. A pure mind presence makes people feel seen, safe, and loved – sometimes that alone sparks a healing from within. And when faced with our own suffering, residing in PureMind can alchemize pain into wisdom. It’s like the quote often attributed to Rumi: “The wound is the place where the light enters you.” PureMind is that light, and by shining on our wounds and those of others, it turns them into doorways for greater understanding and love.
Chapter 7: Identity, Presence & Love
In the journey of understanding PureMind, we arrive at perhaps the most profound realization: who we really are. Along with this comes the recognition of the qualities of this true identity – namely, fearlessness, timelessness, clarity, and love.
What does it mean that PureMind has no fear, no past, no judgment—only clarity and love? This phrase encapsulates the core qualities of abiding as PureMind. Let’s break it down. No fear – when one is fully resting in PureMind, there is an absence of fear. Fear typically arises from thoughts about the future (what might happen) or threats to the ego. In the pure present awareness, one is so anchored in the Now that the future doesn’t loom in the same way. There’s a deep sense of okay-ness. As mentioned, even the Bible notes “There is no fear in love; but perfect love drives out fear”biblehub.com. PureMind and perfect love are intertwined, and in that state fear is dispelled. It doesn’t mean you couldn’t respond prudently to danger, but there isn’t that extra psychological fear that torments. No past – similarly, PureMind isn’t carrying the weight of past regrets or trauma in an active way. It exists in the present, so it is untouched by past narratives. This doesn’t mean you forget your past, but in PureMind you see that the past is essentially memory arising now, and you don’t identify with it as “me”. Therefore, the past no longer binds or defines you. There’s a refreshing innocence, almost as if you were brand new. Many describe this as a feeling of rebirth or a clean slate each moment.
No judgment – judgment here means the habitual labeling and comparing mind (good/bad, me/you, etc.) that often carries a negative charge. In PureMind, one perceives without imposing rigid judgments. There is a great sense of acceptance of what is. Things are seen clearly (which is what is meant by clarity), but not through the lens of bias or personal projection. For example, you might see someone yelling and you recognize “This is anger” (clarity) but you don’t add “What a terrible person” (judgment). Without judgment, there is naturally more love present, because love is blocked by judgment. Judgment creates distance; love bridges it. So when we say only clarity and love, it means the mind simply sees truth as it is, and responds with its fundamental nature which is love or compassion.
Clarity in PureMind is often described as illumination. One Zen analogy says it’s like a mirror that clearly reflects things as they are. The mind is not muddled by desires, fears, or preconceived notions, so it’s extremely lucid. With that clarity, one navigates life more skillfully, because you’re seeing the actual situation, not a distorted version. And Love – so much has been said about love being the essence of spiritual realization. When one is free of fear, past, judgment, what remains is an open heart. It’s as if PureMind, by clearing away ego and time, uncovers the fundamental connectedness of all beings, which we experience as unconditional love. Many sages have come to the conclusion that our true nature is love. For instance, some modern teachers refer to “loving awareness” as the description of the Self: it is awareness, yes, but its flavor is love. We might recall that childlike innocence we discussed – a child can be very loving because they aren’t stuck in grudges or analysis; they just live from the heart moment to moment. PureMind has that childlike quality integrated with wisdom.
So to say PureMind has only clarity and love means that when you are in that state, you perceive truth (clarity) and you care deeply (love) in an impersonal yet profound way. It’s the state that saints and enlightened ones operate from, which is why people around them often feel a tremendous sense of peace and acceptance. They emanate love and understanding effortlessly, because there’s no ego filtering or warping their perception. We all have tasted a bit of this in moments of deep presence – for example, during a crisis when your mind became very clear and you acted selflessly to help someone, feeling only care and no fear. In those moments our PureMind was in charge. The aspiration of spiritual practice is to make that our center more and more of the time.
Is PureMind my true identity? In a word, yes. While we have many relative identities (parent, friend, profession, nationality, etc.), those are all roles and descriptors that pertain to our surface existence. At the deepest level, our identity is the pure consciousness that is aware of all those roles. When people talk about “true self” or the Self, they refer to this fundamental beingness. Upon self-inquiry, one cannot find a solid “thing” that is the self – one finds the observer, the open awareness itself. One spiritual text put it as a question: “Are we this finite ego that we seem to be, or are we infinite self-awareness, other than which nothing actually exists?” sriramanateachings.org. It’s a rhetorical question guiding the seeker to realize we are that infinite self-awareness (i.e., PureMind) and not the finite ego. This realization can be both humbling and empowering. Humbling because the personal story is seen as not ultimately who you are (so perhaps you realize *“I” as John or Jane am not the center of the universe), and empowering because you recognize your identity as something much vaster (the awareness that can contain universes!). It is often accompanied by a feeling of liberation: if I am PureMind, then I am not truly bound by the body’s limits or the mind’s conditioning – those are phenomena within me (awareness).
This aligns with sayings from different traditions: In Hinduism, Atman is Brahman, meaning the soul in you is one with the ultimate realitymedium.com. In Christianity, “the Kingdom of Heaven is within you” and St. Paul’s “We have the mind of Christ” imply a shared divine mind or identity beyond the little self. In Sufi poetry, they speak of realizing “I am Love” or “I am Truth (Haqq)”. All these point to an identity beyond the personal form.
For someone experiencing this, it can be quite a shift. You still operate in daily life as a person, but inwardly you know that’s a kind of temporary role. It’s like an actor who has realized they are not actually Hamlet or Cleopatra on stage, so they don’t suffer the character’s woes after the play ends. Similarly, one who knows “I am Pure Awareness” can play their life roles with more ease and less attachment, because they know at the core what they are cannot be harmed or diminished by the play’s ups and downs. This lends a profound peace and fearless quality. When the body will die, for instance, one who identifies with PureMind knows that awareness itself is not born or killed – so death is not seen as the end of “me,” just the end of the body and personal story. That’s why many traditions say the realization of true identity conquers the fear of death.
On a day-to-day level, identifying as PureMind rather than the ego also means you take things less personally. If criticism comes, you might check if it’s useful feedback (clarity), but you don’t see it as an attack on your being, because your being is much larger than an opinion. If you fail at something, you don’t conclude “I’m a failure” because your identity isn’t tied to success or failure – those are just experiences. So this true identity is stable and spacious; it gives you room to maneuver in life with flexibility and resilience. It’s the ultimate refuge, as many scriptures say. The Buddha might refer to it indirectly when he speaks of the “Deathless” or the unconditioned; in truth he avoided metaphysical statements of Self, but in Zen and Mahayana it’s clear that Buddha-nature (the luminous mind) is our real nature.
Thus, discovering PureMind as your true identity is the heart of spiritual awakening. It’s often a process – one might intellectually understand “I am awareness” before fully feeling and living it. But even that intellectual understanding, reinforced by meditation experiences where you taste pure being, gradually builds into a stable knowing. And living with that knowing transforms life into something more like an adventure of consciousness rather than a struggle of a separate self.
How is PureMind connected to the feeling “Love is everything”? The phrase “Love is everything” is a profound intuition that many people have glimpsed in moments of awe or deep feeling. It points to the idea that at the foundation of all existence lies love – that the universe isn’t just matter and mechanics, but has a heart, so to speak. If we equate Love here with the fundamental creative, unifying force, then PureMind is directly in touch with that. When someone abides as PureMind, they often report a sense of being in love with all – not a romantic or preferential love, but a universal embrace. This can give rise to statements like “Everything is love, all is one.” In non-dual experiences, people feel that the boundary between self and other dissolved in a sea of blissful energy, which they often label as love because it’s warm, connective, and life-affirming.
One way to articulate it is: PureMind recognizes itself in all things, and that recognition is felt as love. Imagine looking at multiple forms – people, animals, objects – and suddenly seeing that one light of consciousness in each. There’s a sense of intimacy with all that arises, as if all of it is you. That naturally feels like love, because love is essentially the experience of unity or deep connection. So if PureMind is our shared being, then from its perspective, indeed “Love is everything” – because everything is made of this one connected consciousness which has the quality of love. A contemporary spiritual teacher, when asked about the nature of reality, answered along these lines: that reality is made of consciousness and love, and that ultimately those two are one.
We can also look at it this way: PureMind is the awareness aspect of ultimate reality, and love is the expression or radiance of that in the realm of feeling. They are inseparable, like two sides of a coin. Some traditions use the terms Sat-Chit-Ananda, which mean Truth- Consciousness-Bliss, to describe the supreme realitymedium.com. Bliss in this context is akin to love or joy. When you’re in PureMind, bliss-love is present. When one says “Love is everything,” they are expressing that blissful unity – everything in essence is an expression of the One Love, taking myriad forms.
This understanding can have a dramatic impact on how one lives. If love is everything, then treating others or the earth with care isn’t just a moral duty, but a natural outcome of seeing the truth. Hurting another would feel like hurting yourself. Many people who have near-death experiences or sudden spiritual awakenings come back with this simple revelation: the most important thing is love. They often then dedicate themselves to being more loving because they feel that’s the fundamental fabric of existence they touched. That ties back to PureMind – likely in those moments they were propelled into pure consciousness and felt that unconditional love.
In daily life, maintaining the view that “love is everything” is challenging when we see conflict and suffering. But from the PureMind perspective, one can sense that even the struggles are in service of growth in love. It’s like how coal under pressure turns into a diamond; difficulties in life can break us open to more compassion eventually. In a cosmic sense, one could think of the universe evolving towards a full manifestation of love and awareness. Whether or not one subscribes to that, on a personal level, living as PureMind is living in love. It doesn’t mean a sentimental or saccharine feeling all the time; it can be very quiet – a deep benevolence and understanding that pervades your being. It’s in the soft gaze you have, the spontaneous smile, the patience and kindness you extend. It’s also in how you experience life – you could be looking at a forest or stars and feel an immense love flowing through you towards it all, as if you and what you behold are in love.
Thus, PureMind and the realization of universal love are part of one continuum. Enlightenment could be described as knowing with one’s whole being that love is the substance of the universe. And until we fully know that, glimpses of PureMind give us tastes of that truth – each taste encouraging us to let that love through a bit more. In practical terms, one might simply find that as they cultivate PureMind, they are happier, more peaceful, and deeply loving without trying – because they are aligning with what was already the essence of everything. As one Zen master succinctly put it: “Our original nature is the nature of love. We don’t have to force it; we need only remove what obscures it, and it shines forth.” PureMind is the removal of the obstructions, and Love is what shines forth as a result, revealing itself to be the all-encompassing reality.
Summary
In our exploration of PureMind, we have journeyed from the fundamental question of what PureMind is, through personal experiences and challenges, across spiritual and philosophical landscapes, and into the very practical realm of daily living. Along the way, we discovered a unifying theme: PureMind refers to the original, pristine awareness at the heart of our being, an awareness characterized by clarity, peace, innocence, and love. This pure awareness is not something exotic or far away – it is ever-present, often described as our natural state. As the Buddha suggested with the metaphor of the luminous mind, our consciousness is inherently radiant and clear, only temporarily “defiled” by passing clouds of thought and emotion accesstoinsight.org. Returning to PureMind is thus less about attaining something new and more about uncovering what was always there.
We saw that when we remember “I am Pure Mind,” there is a tangible shift: the breath eases, the nervous system calms, and we reconnect with a feeling of warmth and safety. This is the homecoming aspect of PureMind – it feels like returning to a place of wholeness within. Multiple traditions affirm this inner home. In Christian terms, it’s the “pure heart” that sees God activechristianity.org; in Advaita, it’s realizing the Self as pure awareness medium.com; in Zen, it’s knowing one’s original face. All these point to an identity beyond the conditioned ego. Indeed, we concluded that PureMind is our true identity. As one insight from the teachings of Sri Ramana Maharshi highlighted, we are not the finite ego but the “infinite self-awareness” that underlies it sriramanateachings.org. Knowing ourselves as this pure awareness brings a profound liberation – fear diminishes, judgment drops away, and what remains is clarity and love.
Crucially, we explored how to live from PureMind amidst daily life. It’s not enough to grasp it in meditation; the real fruit is in embodiment. Practices like mindfulness, intentional breathing, morning/evening rituals, and self-inquiry help us repeatedly return to presence. By cultivating these habits, equanimity and compassion gradually infuse our reactions. Relationships improve as we listen and see others through the compassionate lens of PureMind (recognizing the same essence in them). Our choices align more with integrity and kindness, and creativity flows with less obstruction. Even in the face of suffering – whether our own pain or others’ – PureMind enables a response of loving awareness, holding difficulties in the space of acceptance and wisdom. As the Dhammapada assures, “Hatred ceases by love”, not by more hatred bmcm.org. In practical terms, this means meeting challenges (inner or outer) with the transformative power of love and understanding that PureMind naturally provides.
In closing, PureMind can be seen as both the journey and the destination of the spiritual path. In moments when we feel lost, simply remembering the phrase or the idea of “Pure Mind” can be a gentle guide back to center. Over time, this center becomes stronger and more accessible. We realize that PureMind was never actually lost – it was just obscured, like the sun behind clouds. Through sincere contemplation, practice, and self-compassion, we part those clouds more and more. What dawns is a life lived in greater peace, freedom, and love. We come to confirm for ourselves the insight of sages: that at the deepest level, our mind is pure, our heart is open, and our being is one with the source of all goodness. And when we know this not just intellectually but experientially, we naturally echo the sentiment that has flowed from enlightened hearts through the ages – an unconditional love for all and the simple, clear wisdom that who we really are is Pure Mind, ever-free and ever-present